Dogs are the most popular pet in the United States and a beloved family member to many. As with a human baby, a puppy's innocent "wild" behavior can provoke unkind treatment. The source of this unfortunate but common reaction often lies in the pastùthe family history of the caretaker.
Written as a year-long journal, Milk Teeth chronicles sociologist Robbie Pfeufer Kahn's struggle to achieve a loving relationship with her black Labrador puppy, Laska. Mirthful, mischievous, intelligent, and strong-willed, Laska challenges her owner's attempts at leadership and affection. The puppy refuses pats, jumps up, and mouths with needle-sharp teeth. To her dismay, Kahn reacts with fear and anger, sometimes treating Laska roughly. Strangely, these encounters produce flashbacks from Kahn's diminished childhood andùwith the help of dog trainers, psychotherapy, and literature and theory from a variety of disciplinesùlight the way toward understanding her responses to the puppy. In time, Laska's sharp white teeth no longer serve as a metaphor for her character and she matures into a spirited, friendly dog. Kahn even reconciles with her parents from whom she has been estranged. Using her teaching, friendships, spiritual community, the natural world, and her grown son to keep herself rooted in the present, Kahn is able to explore her past.
Poignant, raw, and at times humorous, Kahn's narrative invites readers to become aware of unconscious cruelty and its sources, to cultivate kindness, and to apply these insights not only to themselves and other humans, but also to the animals who share our lives.
Written as a year-long journal, Milk Teeth chronicles sociologist Robbie Pfeufer Kahn's struggle to achieve a loving relationship with her black Labrador puppy, Laska. Mirthful, mischievous, intelligent, and strong-willed, Laska challenges her owner's attempts at leadership and affection. The puppy refuses pats, jumps up, and mouths with needle-sharp teeth. To her dismay, Kahn reacts with fear and anger, sometimes treating Laska roughly. Strangely, these encounters produce flashbacks from Kahn's diminished childhood andùwith the help of dog trainers, psychotherapy, and literature and theory from a variety of disciplinesùlight the way toward understanding her responses to the puppy. In time, Laska's sharp white teeth no longer serve as a metaphor for her character and she matures into a spirited, friendly dog. Kahn even reconciles with her parents from whom she has been estranged. Using her teaching, friendships, spiritual community, the natural world, and her grown son to keep herself rooted in the present, Kahn is able to explore her past.
Poignant, raw, and at times humorous, Kahn's narrative invites readers to become aware of unconscious cruelty and its sources, to cultivate kindness, and to apply these insights not only to themselves and other humans, but also to the animals who share our lives.
- Presents the darker side of the human/animal bond
- Speaks from both the victim and perpetrator perspectives
- Demonstrates the importance of social support during psychological crisis
- Includes journal entries
This book is moving, haunting, revealing, and at times, gently humorous. It examines, in very personal, honest terms, how relationships with dogs can teach us about ourselves, especially those lessons we have been avoiding.
If one were interested in finding a gold mine of information about the psychological aspects of the human-dog bond, this would be the place to turn. However, it is much more. It is a treasury of fascinating anecdotes, observations and some amusing and moving insights.
An urgent, courageous, and ambitious work.
Focused around Kahn's sometimes challenging, but always loving, relationship with her dog Laska, Milk Teeth is a touching and multilayered exploration of the human-animal bond.
This is a book that should be read by anyone interested in the complicated relationships between people and dogs, the psychological aspects of those relationships, and the way that unconscious cruelty, even among the best of us, can play out.
This book is moving, haunting, revealing, and at times, gently humorous. It examines, in very personal, honest terms, how relationships with dogs can teach us about ourselves, especially those lessons we have been avoiding.
If one were interested in finding a gold mine of information about the psychological aspects of the human-dog bond, this would be the place to turn. However, it is much more. It is a treasury of fascinating anecdotes, observations and some amusing and moving insights.
An urgent, courageous, and ambitious work.
Focused around Kahn's sometimes challenging, but always loving, relationship with her dog Laska, Milk Teeth is a touching and multilayered exploration of the human-animal bond.
This is a book that should be read by anyone interested in the complicated relationships between people and dogs, the psychological aspects of those relationships, and the way that unconscious cruelty, even among the best of us, can play out.
Robbie Pfeufer Kahn is a professor of sociology at the University of Vermont. She is the author of Bearing Meaning: The Language of Birth, winner of the 1997 Jesse Bernard Award.
Acknowledgments
A Note to the Reader
Prologue: May 1999
Journal: January 1997 --- January 1998
January 1997: Meeting
February 1997: Cutout Paper Dolls
March 1997: Blue Sky
April 1997: ``Puppy Book''
May 1997: Hackles and Strategies
June 1997: Red Heifer
July 1997: Ocean and Pond
August 1997: Hot Sauce and Book Award
September 1997: Regression
October 1997: New Year
November 1997: Reconciliation
December 1997: ``Good Days Coming''
January 1998: Anniversary
Epilogue: March 2001
Postscript
Notes
Bibliography
Index
A Note to the Reader
Prologue: May 1999
Journal: January 1997 --- January 1998
January 1997: Meeting
February 1997: Cutout Paper Dolls
March 1997: Blue Sky
April 1997: ``Puppy Book''
May 1997: Hackles and Strategies
June 1997: Red Heifer
July 1997: Ocean and Pond
August 1997: Hot Sauce and Book Award
September 1997: Regression
October 1997: New Year
November 1997: Reconciliation
December 1997: ``Good Days Coming''
January 1998: Anniversary
Epilogue: March 2001
Postscript
Notes
Bibliography
Index
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